Self-Actualization

Maslow’s Hierarchy of Needs 

A simplified version of human needs and wants.

Even the pyramid shape describes, being in a strong foundation goals are achievable.

Time, age and experience would shift an individual from one stage to another. 

My initial understanding was simple, thinking to reach Self-Actualization one day or maybe later mainly because I never understood the life style expected at the top. 

Emotions = Life 

Emotions plays an important role while moving in the hierarchy stage. Every level gets to run various emotions, either to react or reflect all base on experience.

A delightful space of recovery flows once the mind learns to deviate.

God says, keep on moving, and we agree to obey this simple rule. 

So have I achieved Self-Actualization at the age of 43?

My answer is still NO.

Still hanging at 3rd Stage of Psychological Needs.

To be specific, stuck at Belongingness & Love Needs.

Will I progress to next stage? 

For what ever reason, I am just glad for reaching until today.

It took millions of courage, centeries of tolerence & a rightful mind that have set my strong foundation, mostly because of parents and spouse.

I am thankful to Lord Shiva for showing the path that looks differently from Maslow's theory. 

Anyway I don't mind if this destiny is not towards Self-Atctualization. 

Oum Nama Shivaya Namaha.

P/S : Thanks to Dell who shared her broken relationship with unexpected emotions until this topic triggered me to write. I’m sure she would find her true love soon 💕, a better one of course 🌈.